A: This is a question I think more people should ponder. In my opinion, you should never put it all out there. Leaving something to the imagination is sexier than pushing it up and sucking it in any day of the week. Of course, you don’t want to lose your femininity, so pick one feature to highlight. Whether it be your mile-long legs, your to-die-for cleavage, your smooth and sexy back, your irresistibly kissable neck or your polished and lickable toes, let that feature shine and leave them wanting more.
Remember that old saying, Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? There’s a reason people are still saying it. A little mystery goes a long way. When? What? How? Soon? Maybe? Anticipation is sexy. Anticipation gives all parties involved something to wonder about, something to look forward to, something to work for.
I’ll also add that you should dress for the occasion. If you’re headed to a baseball game, leave the heels at home. Show him how you can rock those jeans and a tee. Throw a baseball cap on and watch how he looks at you. Sexy comes in all shapes and sizes, and skin only plays a very small role in the total picture.
Whatever you choose, let your confidence shine through. It’s all about being comfortable with who you are. Be you. Be true.
~ Elle J Rossi, author of The Luminary and The Soother